Love life live Lent – day four: Watch the news and pray…

Sometimes when we look at the news it feels like all we can do is pray. The situation is too dire, the problem too big, for anything we can do to have any effect. Sometimes it may even feel as if our prayers are too small.

But today, people will be praying for what’s on the news like never before, because today, the Love Life Live Lent action is to watch the news and pray about it.  There will have been prayers arising with the breakfast news, there will be more with the lunchtime news, and still more with the evening bulletins.  And thanks to 24 news services, news websites and twitter, I imagine that today’s prayer vigil for all that’s going on in the world is pretty much non-stop.

But even today, it’s not the size or the quality of our prayers that makes the difference, it’s the fact that God is always more ready to listen than we are to pray. And that he knows the deepest truth and hurt of every situation better than we ever can.  Even if it seems that nothing is happening, God is already at work, answering our prayers – and responding to all the things we should have prayed about but didn’t – in ways that we can’t even imagine.  And he’s at work in us, ensuring that our praying changes not only those things that are external to us, but also that which is inside us, so that we ourselves can become ways for God to answer our own prayers and those of others.

Prayer is a mysterious process.  It’s something we do in faith and in hope and in love as well as out of duty and habit. And sometimes it’s the only thing we can do.  But if you’re struggling with today’s action, to pray for what’s on the news, then why not try some of these ideas to help your prayers feel more real:

1. When you near about a news story, write down a list of all the people affected by it (our you could even draw them) – include not only those who appear to be the victims, but also those who seem to be causing the hurt. Pray for them all.

2. As you sit down to watch the news, set out a row of small candles. For each news story, think about were the darkness is, and how it comes to be. Who is bringing the darkness into that situation? Are you part of what makes that place dark, or sad, or scary?  Ask God to be with those people for whom the world is a dark place. Then light one of the candles, and think about all the people who are able to bring light into that situation, and thank God for them. Ask yourself if you are one of those people.

3. If you read the news online, pick a story that has moved you, or challenged you, and share it on facebook or twitter, inviting those you’re in contact with online to spare a moment to pray, with you, for the people involved.

4. If you’re reading the news in a newspaper, cut out the articles that you’ve chosen to pray about, and put the clippings in a safe place, where you can revisit them each day.  If a news story develops, keep subsequent articles too, so that you can update your prayers, and even start to give thanks if things look as if they are getting better. You could even start a prayer scrapbook.

There are lots of other ways to make prayers for what’s on the news feel real. Why not share your ideas on twitter using the #livelent hashtag, or leave a comment here?

The blanket of blessing

Anyone at Stepping Stones (that’s Buckden-speak for Messy Church) today was able to partake of the latest in multi-sensory prayer.

We have always used objects, actions and various items of a multi-sensory nature in Stepping Stones to express our prayers. Among the favourites is the prayer cushion: a large, squashy red heart-shaped cushion that we pass round, taking turns to hug it as we silently ask God to bless the people we love (or the people we find it hard to love, or those we feel might be most in need of God’s blessing).

Earlier in the summer I found the prayer cushion’s natural successor: the blanket of blessing. Like many of the best sermon illustrations, all age liturgical resources and prayer aids, he came from Dunelm Mill.  It is dark pinky-red. It has hearts on it. It is made of the softest of soft fleecy fabric. It is completely irresistible.

Unlike the prayer cushion which could be considered rather individualistic, the blanket of blessing is communal: whole piles of children can be encompassed in its soft embrace (and the blanket itself doesn’t even need to be CRB-checked) and best of all, when one person feels they have been sufficiently blessed, they can take the blanket from around their own shoulders, and drape it over someone else.  ‘God bless Denise’, said Daniel, as he wrapped our churchwarden up in the blanket this afternoon.  ‘God bless Ally, Daniel and Joanna,’ said Mia and William as my children and I were enveloped in fuzzy warm blessings.

The blanket of blessing is here to stay.  I now have to buy another two for my children, so they don’t argue about who gets to use the church one when Stepping Stones is over…

Have you got a blanket of blessing for your church yet?